Friday, May 24, 2013

The Good - Bye


When my husband told me that his company was moving our family away from our hometown, my heart sank. We had been married for seven years and had two small children. I was extremely close to my mother, sister, and in-laws, so when he told me about the transfer of the entire company, I was in a state of resistance.

As the time approached, it looked as though the move was really going to happen, although I prayed against it, and I tried to ignore it. Daily, I gently urged my husband to look for another job in our hometown, but job searching produced no leads. I finally had to admit my denial. I realized we were indeed going to move.

The day we said goodbye to our families, I remember my mom saying, "God will give you family in a church, and you will be okay.” I dismissed this, knowing it was true, but doubting at the same time, as I did not want to hear that God was replacing the family that I dearly loved with complete strangers. On the drive to our new state, I promise it was as if one could see my fingernail marks engraved on the landscape from across three state lines as I dug in wanting to hold onto my hometown!

My mother is not a prophet, but the instructions she gave rang true. We did find a church home and they are like our family. After twenty years in our new home state, it truly has become our home. God really does bring you close to those who are doing His will, when being in His will is your desire. After all these years I realize it truly was a good - bye.
With Much Joy,
©Darla J. Smith
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